RANT: I can not stand over-anal people!

Hey people! I haven’t been in this site for a while but I haven’t abandoned it just yet! I’ve been working extra days to make up for the days I got off from being sick last week. Well, remember how I said I haven’t experienced girl drama in a while? I think I jinxed myself. 

I have always butted heads with people who are extremely particular about things. So the company I work for now is 90% female and I get along with all the girls. But for some reason, this one girl just always got on my nerves. Here are the many reasons why I dislike her. (I need to vent!)

1. She makes fun of people and is a real ass and even says “you’re stupid,” but if you say ONE thing like “you’re such a brat,” she gets REALLLLY offended. I hate people who can dish it but can’t take it.
2. She is very very OCD with certain things like  if you don’t do things her way. We share a work station for sales and I decorate things my way but she doesn’t agree so she oh-so-loves to text me every minute saying how bad I am. SO JUST CHANGE IT! Geez!

3. She complains 500,000 times throughout the day. I can’t stand working with her. I’ve tried but she doesn’t know how to speak without looking down on people.

4. She is absurdly rude and patronizing when she talks. For example, if I say “Sorry, I didn’t know we were supposed to color coordinate that,” she would text me saying, “yeah i understand color coordinating is real hard.” People think sarcasm is clever but it’s just idiocy and a lack of manners.

5. It’s either her way or no way. She only sees things from her perspective and does not like to meet in the middle. I have always agreed with her but one time I tried to give her constructive criticism, and she attacked my idea! How do you expect to run a business if you can’t debate people’s opinions in a professional manner?

6. She turns people into her own personal slaves. She makes people buy her food, heat up her coffee, clean for her, carry heavy boxes for her, fold blankets for her, etc. MY GOSH!

I know there are 2 sides to every story and I’ve messed up on my part by not communicating with her. But she is just NOT a pleasant person to work with and I really don’t like the girl. People have been telling me to overlook her negatives and be the bigger person. That I have to be the one who caters to her. Why does everyone say that to me? No, I will not cater to someone who makes people clean up mold for her. Someone that makes people heat up her coffee. NO! I can not stand it and I’d rather quit than do anything for her.

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Sorry you guys had to hear this rant but I just had to get it out somehow. haha Hopefully my next post will be more delightful and happy! hahaha

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xoxo Hunni

3 Comentários em “RANT: I can not stand over-anal people!”

jennyp @ 21-12-2009 - 10:59

Who the fuck is telling you to cater to her?!?! I didn’t know you work with Natalie Kim! Yeah, that’s right, I used her name! How does it make you a bigger person by cleaning up her mold (that’s probably in her vagina, because who would fuck that)?!

Don’t you fucking cater to bitches…it only gives them reason to be more bitchy! Ignore her complaints and defend yourself if necessary. Silence is powerful here because she wants reaction. That’s how you’re the bigger person.

Lil @ 22-12-2009 - 00:01

lol i love jen’s response! Anyways, sorry i’ve been MIA. I was in SF and I forgot my charger for my phone, so it’s currently charging. Anyways, vent away! We have totally been there! Well the good thing is that you don’t have to live with her! lol. I miss you!

Hunni @ 28-12-2009 - 12:18

haha. Well, she actually made amends with me by texting me and explaining that she was having surgery that day she yelled at me. And she wanted to clear the air. So we’re on good terms now, being nice to each other. Whew! lol